Why Sex Becomes Routine

Most people who have been in a long-term sexual relationship have
developed a sort of sexual repertoire that they do not deviate from much
when getting down and dirty. The reason for this is simple: most adults
are tired, very tired. Between juggling kids, work, and an otherwise
full schedule, it is not uncommon for a couple to use a bed more for
sleeping than for anything else – even if more sex is desired. When a
night finally comes when both partners can muster up the energy to just
do it, they want to do what works and what is going to get fast,
reliable results without having to put in too much effort. Sound
familiar? Hence, the boring sexual routine is born, sure the couple may
not enjoy mind-blowing orgasms each and every time, but it gets the job
done.

Why Masturbation Works Every Time

Now, on the other side of the coin is couples, or
individuals, who engage in self-love. Whether masturbation is reserved
for a night when sex just isn’t going to happen, is used as part of a
relaxing bedtime routine, or is just for fun, it is about as close to a
sure thing as there is out there. The reason behind this phenomenon is
that no partner can provide the exact type of stimulation the body is
craving like oneself. Even the most skillful partner is unlikely to be
able to achieve the specific angle, pressure and speed that a man is
able to give himself, so from that respect, sometimes masturbation
provides a faster, easier service than sex does. Think of masturbation
as the ATM of sex, guaranteed results without having to deal with an
actual person.

How Masturbation Can Improve Sex

Believe it or not, when sex and masturbation are able to come together,
the results can be spectacular. Individuals who masturbate are,
obviously, very familiar with the specific sensations they enjoy, so if
they can muster up the courage to express this to their partner, they
can learn to experience fireworks in the bedroom. When partners take the
time to teach each other where and how to touch each other, in a slower
more exploratory manner they actually learn more about how their body
reacts during sex. Sure, the wham, bam, thank you ma’am method may get
the job done, but exploring sensations and guiding one another down a
longer path to orgasm, not only makes sex more enjoyable, it also
reconnects the couple in a more intimate way. Sure, there may still be
nights when a quickie is all that can be mustered, but on occasion, it
may be worth it to put on a pot of coffee after dinner and get a little
more pep in the step to help break out of the boring bedroom routine.

Staying Sexually Healthy

Whether a man is getting plenty of partner action, or more of a
hands-on variety, a healthy penis is key to a healthy sexual response.
Over time, the penis skin can become rough and desensitized, due to the
constant friction that sexual stimulation provides. Keep the skin
healthy and sensitive to all touches by using a daily penis health
formula. Selecting a health cream, especially one containing Acetyl L
Carnitine and Alpha Lipoic Acid, can help rejuvenate damaged penile
cells and improve nerve function that may have become dulled over the
years. Simply apply daily and enjoy the benefits of a healthier penis.

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